Showing posts with label children.. Show all posts
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Thursday, March 20, 2014

LAST ROSES OF SUMMER



Good afternoon and welcome to Thankful Thursday afternoon in my little corner of the world where summer is gracing us with what I suspect may well be the last kiss of a warm day for this summer.  The sky is blue and there are no clouds and a gentle breeze is blowing and I am sharing with you photographs of some roses on my favourite bush.


The rose is named "Eiffel Tower and has a very sweet and strong fragrance and the colour brings pure joy to me


This rose is outside my bedroom window and on warm nights when the window is open and the breeze blowing in the right direction I can smell the fragrance from my bed.

Personally I shall not be sorry to say goodbye to the "lazy, hazy, crazy days of summer" and to be wrapped in Autumn's red and gold blanket.   I shall not be sorry to head into winter either because while it is cold we do not suffer the icy winds and snow storms those of you in the northern hemisphere suffer.   So I am glad to hand over spring and summer to you folk with the hope that you enjoy every moment of Spring's awakening and the warmth of your summer days.

May your spring days and your gardens be filled with beautiful blooms such as these:


and may there be a song in your heart and a smile on your face.

Life goes on and I give thanks daily that I am alive and able to see the changing of the seasons and to find joy in the little things.

There are often bumps in our pathway and things that we have to overcome and go through.  I am monitored regularly and have blood tests and clinic  visits every three months and at other times during the year there are scans to be done.  Most transplant friends go through these tests and examinations and although we do it with ease, we can often become unsettled and anxious at these times.   It is a great honour to be able to support those who are anxious when it is their turn and in reply to receive loving support when test time comes for me.

If you are going through a time of tests, then please know that my love, care and support is with you and how grateful I am to have your support when it is my turn.

I have a friend - Suzanne who is today going through her last treatment of Chemo Therapy for her breast cancer treatment and who will now have 8 weeks away from home and living in a hotel away from family for radiotherapy.

I am here Suzanne cheering you on and encouraging you to keep on being brave as you have been right through this ghastly ordeal.

Be kind and encouraging no matter where you are or who you meet - everyone of us is carrying a burden of some kind.  Be kind and gentle to those who appear ungrateful and love those who appear unlovable because that's when the need it most of all.

I hope that Thursday is a good day for you all - no matter if you are almost through the day or yet to start it.  I hope that you can find time to smell the roses, take time to be present to each moment and to be supportive to all who need you.    Smile at a stranger - it may be the only contact he has during his day.   

I have new neighbours who have a very young Grandson who has become my shining light - he calls out to me and waves his little hands off each time he sees me and these are very special moments that I enjoy very much being present to.

Walk with a child, read a book together, make cookies or just splash in puddles - these things will brighten your day and make lovely memories for you.

Thank you for visiting the Musings from my Heart and I wish you peace and plenty, love and laughter and health and happiness.

Love and hugs,


Saturday, October 22, 2011

SATURDAY SHOPPING AND FOREVER YOUNG



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=favgoOn-U1I
Joan Baez - © Bob Dylan - FOREVER YOUNG

Welcome to midday on Saturday in my little corner of the world where the temperature is forecast for 26 degrees today and 30 tomorrow with rain across the Ranges , but fine on the plains.  It is a lovely sunny Saturday for those with picnics, weddings and outdoor activities.

My activities today consist of shopping, some reading and some jobs around the house.  A quiet day - and I love quiet days when I can just go at the speed I wish and enjoy stopping for a while.

I am aware that I am far from young in years now, but I am young in heart and mind.   My steps are slower and I tire easily but in my mind I run free with the wind in my hair.  I don't mind being older because there comes a wisdom and tolerance unknown to the young and a very great acceptance of things and an understanding I never had before.

I like being older - I like that people ask for advice and I hope I provide them with good, well rounded and considered opinions that help them on their way.   I have learned to not give advice unless it is asked for and to allow others to make their own mistakes.  It is very hard to stand and watch them make those mistakes and even if I suspect there is something wrong, I have to stand back and wait for them to come to me and admit it, or ask for advice - or indeed, to just wait for the acceptance and love they know will be here for them.

They may well be mature adults making their own way in society with responsible jobs and respected opinions, but they are still my babies and when I suspect there is pain I just want to take them in my arms and comfort them.  I want to be able to tell them that the world will be alright again soon and we can work it through.   But I have to wait until they come to me - and I find that difficult.

"May you grow up to be righteous
May you grow up to be true
May you always know the truth
And see the lights surrounding you
May you always be courageous
Stand upright and be strong
May you stay forever young
Forever young, forever young
May you stay forever young



May your hands always be busy
May your feet always be swift
May you have a strong foundation
When the winds of changes shift
May your heart always be joyful
May your song always be sung
May you stay forever young
Forever young, forever young
May you stay forever young"



I wonder if they remember me singing this song to them - I hope they do and my prayer is "May you have a firm foundation when the winds of changes shift"  for they do shift for all of us.


Wherever you are, wherever your children are I hope that you can be strong for them and that they know they only have to turn to you and you are there with them.
May you be forever young.


Thank you for visiting "The Musings from My Heart"
Love and hugs,
Linda.